Lesson 18
Discipline of a Loving Father
Hebrews 12:1-17
January 31, 2016
We live in a culture so much different from the one in which I grew up. Today there is no accountability for the behavior of those in society. We have even heard a new term recently. It is “Affluenza.” This is a condition brought on by having so much of the material things of this world that a person no longer knows the difference from right or wrong. The moral chaos in which we find ourselves comes from the lack of discipline in the family structure. There was a recent article by J.T. O’Donnell titled “3 Reasons Millennials Are Getting Fired.” She states that,
- Employers don’t want to be parents. Millennials expect to be continually coached in the areas of their deficiencies.
- The anti-work attitude isn’t appreciated (or tolerated). Millennials want to work only the minimum number of hours expected of them and want all kinds of flexibility in the hours they work so they can pursue other interests. They are also disrespectful of those who do not give in to their demands.
- They also have the expectation of the workplace being one of fun. They are asking for all kinds of perks such as gym memberships, onsite healthy meals, house parties among others they can get. Even with all of these it is difficult to keep them happy. This attitude is upsetting their employers because it brings with it a sense of entitlement.
We no longer live in the Age of Aquarius but one of entitlement. All one has to do is listen to the politicians of today who want to provide everything from education to healthcare with no cost to those receiving those services. Where is the idea that one needs to work for what he or she gets? We have become a world of takers and not makers. All of this has occurred because the parents have not held the children accountable for their actions. Everyone and everything is blamed if a child fails, except the fact that the failure often comes because there was no discipline given out. When I was growing up accountability came at the end of an arm holding a paddle.
This kind of attitude has spilled over into the church. Once upon a time a congregation disciplined those who sinned in such a way as to bring disgrace on the body. Matthew 18:15-18 provides the guidelines for dealing with a sinner. Membership in a church is no longer regarded as something important in one’s life. There are four aspects that should be considered if one is to be considered a member of a church. They are
- Regular and consistent attendance
- Participation in a small group
- Serving according to your gifts
- Supporting the body financially.
With over two thirds of our members inactive I would say that we are not taking membership seriously. We shall see that God disciplines those He loves. Why are we to do less?
Hebrews 12:1
The beginning of this verse has two possible interpretations. One way of looking at it is the way that has been put forth for years. The great cloud of witnesses are considered to be those who are now in heaven who are watching over all the activities of man and encouraging them as they live out their lives on earth. The second would indicate that the witness is based on the lives of the men about whom chapter 11 was written. They have set the example by which all men are to live. As they conquered sin every follower of Christ is also to lay aside any thing that keeps him trapped or entangled in sin. Man is to take the path that God has laid out before him.
- What are the two possibilities that this verse holds out for us? (Both the example of those who have gone on before us, and the encouragement we have received from them.)
- Why do we need encouragement from God’s word?
- What are the things that keep you from living the life that God intended?
- What does it mean by running the race with endurance?
Hebrews 12:2-3
Man’s focus is to be on Jesus Christ who completed all that is required for man’s faith. The writer provides a description of what Jesus experienced for mankind. In John 13 Jesus told his disciples that He was going to return to His Father. Before that He was to face unspeakable physical agony. Greater than that was the humiliation that was His because of man’s sin. The writer shared that Jesus despised the reason that put Him on the cross. Now He has His reward and is seated at the right hand of His Farther. Christ suffered that man would not grow weary or lose heart.
- Why is our entire life to be focused on Jesus? (He is the author and finisher of our faith.)
- What did He have to endure to finish the task?
- What does it mean to say that Jesus despised the shame? (He hated the very reason that He had to go to the cross. It was the sin of mankind.)
- What was the reward He received for the completion of the task?
- What does it mean for us that He completed the task?
- How should we feel because of the great cost to Christ?
Hebrews 12:4-6
Those who were considering falling away were admonished to think about those who had sacrificed so much for them. The writer stated that their level of suffering had not come close to those who had gone before them. Many of their predecessors had resisted sin even to the point of death. Although as learned individuals they should have remembered the instruction of Solomon in Proverbs 3:11-12 concerning discipline they somehow had forgotten what he had written in their time of distress. It was important for them to understand in the face of trials that God loves those He disciplines.
- How were the people alive in the days of the writer falling short in their faith? (In time of persecution they were turning their backs on Christianity.)
- How were the people falling short of what the heroes of faith described in chapter 11 had been willing to endure?
- When you think about your own faith to what lengths do you go in resisting sin?
- What are we to remember when God disciplines us because of our sin? (God disciplines those He loves.)
- In your understanding what does it mean to be disciplined by God?
Hebrews 12:7-8
It was clear in the mind of the writer that followers of Christ were expected to endure the loving discipline of God. His discipline was proof that each of them was a son of the Father. If the person lacked discipline then it was obvious that they were not true children of God, but illegitimate. Here again it should have been clear that because they were being disciplined they were children of God.
- Why are we not to rebel against God’s discipline? (We should expect it because of our sinful nature.)
- What happens to a person where there is no discipline in his life?
- Why would God let a person live an undisciplined life?
- How can we accept the fact that the discipline we are receiving is not a bad thing?
Hebrews 12:9-11
The discipline one receives from his earthly father is a picture of that which God gives. Even though discipline is hardly ever pleasant, the one receiving it respects the one performing it. If one respects the earthly father when he disciplines his son how much more should he respect God who is doing it for his eternal benefit? Man only disciplines his son for a short period of time. Once he has reached maturity he is no longer under his father’s instruction. It is not the same with God. Man never reaches the point of complete holiness so he is forever in need of God’s correction and exhortation. Man will only find joy and righteousness as he submits to God.
- How is the discipline one receives from an earthly father a picture of what God does for His children?
- At what point does a child no longer need the kind of discipline meted out by his earthly father?
- Why does God’s discipline continue throughout a person’s lifetime?
- What qualities result from accepting the discipline of God?
- What does it say about a person if he receives no discipline from either his human father or God?
Hebrews 12:12-13
Those who had been disciplined and grown in their faith, according to the writer, had a responsibility to aid those who are still having difficulty resisting sin. They were to:
- Strengthen the hands of those who were weak
- Strengthen the knees that were feeble
- Make straight paths for the people
These were to be done so the limb of the lame, rather than being put out of joint, would be healed.
- What has prepared you to help those with spiritual needs?
- Who are those who need what is described above?
- In what ways can those who are strong in their faith help those who are weaker?
- How do the things done for others help them in life? (Prepare them to run the race of life as strong individuals.)
Hebrews 12:14
The writer gave one last command to those who had come into a relationship with the Father. They were to pursue peace with their fellow man. That peace would have included those who were persecuting them. Not only was man to live at peace with others but he must also work toward holiness. Without holiness no one can truly see God at work in his life.
- With whom is a man to pursue peace?
- What does it mean when the writer commands the people to pursue peace?
- What does sanctification mean? (It means that we are to become holy in our walk before the Lord.)
- Why is it difficult if not impossible to see God if we do not pursue holiness in our life?
Hebrews 12:15-16
Three things were very important to the writer. His desire for the all people was that they:
- Not to come up short of the grace of God
- Not become bitter so as to bring division among believers.
- Not to become a person like Esau who was willing to give up what was rightfully his for one meal. His attitude led to not only losing his inheritance but had the blessing due him taken away. Underlying all of this was his unfitness for a relationship with God. The writer went on to say there was no place for repentance even though he begged his father with tears to bless him. He missed out on the joy that God could have brought into his life.
- How does one come up short of God’s grace? (By turning his back on God when difficult times come.)
- What does bitterness do to the relationship with God and between men?
- How did Esau differ from the people mentioned in chapter 11?
- What brought about his loss of the birthright and subsequently his blessing? (He was considered unworthy of receiving either one.)
- Do not look at church membership as an entitlement but be willing to be a full participant, which means, attending worship on a regular basis, being part of a small group, serving in some capacity and supporting the ministries of the church financially.
- Pray that God will give you the strength to resist sin.
- Understand the cost the Christ paid in order for you to have eternal life.
- Realize that the discipline from God is not punishment for sin but to point you onto the right path.
- Stay faithful so you will not fall out of the relationship with the Father that leads to joy and righteous in your life.
Although society seems to be turning its back on Christianity in reality believers have never been in a majority in this world. It may be difficult to live a strong Christian life but we know that God is doing everything to provide us with the tools to stay true to Him. One of those tools is discipline. Whenever we get out of line He sometimes uses strong ways to bring us back in line. All we have to do is look at Job and the nation of Israel to see the measures He has used. We have been given a book of instructions called God’s word to see the standards by which we are to live.
I do not believe that any of us sitting in the class to day want to miss out on the joy comes from fellowship with Him.