Lesson 22
Patience is a virtue
Luke 8:40-56
Patience is a virtue. I agree with the title of this lesson. I will have to admit however is that it is not one of the qualities I possess. Over the years I have used the term aggressive patience which means that to achieve a goal I would keep driving forward until someone began to buy into the idea as their own. It is difficult for me to see how slowly we sometimes move in churches.
Over the years I have had an interest in trying to understand how people with different personalities relate to each other. Hopefully this study has helped me reach the point that I do not need to push my own agenda but am willing to listen and respect what the other person is saying. It has not been easy but I am trying to work on it.
Change does not bother me, as much as holding on to programs and traditions that have been in place for years and no one is willing to do anything about them. When I read statistics, like it takes seven years to bring about a different culture in organizations, I wonder how we get anything done. Our unwillingness to recognize that society is changing and we in the church are not keeping up with the different attitudes of all age groups, we are missing out on the opportunity to reach these people for Christ. There must be the proper tension between moving too fast and not changing at all. Jesus always did the right thing at the right time.
Luke 8:40
After the episode with the demoniac and the people of Gerasenes, Jesus returned to Galilee. There He found a crowd waiting for Him to return. How different was their attitude from the one He found east of the Sea of Galilee.
- Why were the crowds waiting for Jesus?
- How was their attitude different than the one seen on the eastern shore of the Sea of Galilee?
- Why did the people of Gerasenses miss out on what Jesus could do? (They were so caught up in their loss that they did not give Him a chance to speak to or heal the people.)
- How can we miss out on what Jesus wants to do in the church?
Luke 8:41-42a
Among those who came to Jesus upon His return was Jairus. He would not be a person that would have been expected to welcome Jesus. He was an official of the synagogue. As soon as he came to Jesus he fell down before Him as a sign of humility and reverence. Desperation will often drive a person to do what he or she would not ordinarily do. He had a twelve year old daughter at home who was dying. He knew that her only hope lay with Jesus.
- Why would it be unusual for a man like Jairus to approach Jesus? (He was a Jewish leader in the synagogue.)
- What was his attitude as he came to Jesus? (One of humility and reverence.)
- What are the things that happen to a person that will cause him to come to Jesus?
- Why did Jairus come to Jesus?
- What did he think Jesus could do for him?
Luke 8:42b
A significant fact is presented at the end of this verse. It would set the stage for what was to come next. Luke wrote that as Jairus started off with Jesus there was a crowd pressing in on Him.
Luke 8:43-44
Among the crowd was a woman who had been hemorrhaging for twelve years. This condition made her unclean. She was not to be among people who might touch her and become unclean themselves. Mark gives a picture of her desperate condition in Mark 5:25-26. She had spent everything she had but had not gotten any better in all those years. She seized the opportunity to be anonymous as a part of the crowd and came up to Jesus and touched His clothing. Immediately, she was made well.
- What was the condition of the woman who became part of the crowd?
- Why was she not even supposed to be among the crowd?
- What part did the crowd play in her willingness to approach Jesus?
- Why did she just touch His garment and not come up to Him and ask for healing?
- What was the result of her actions?
- What did it show about her? (She had faith that Jesus could help her.)
Luke 8:45-46
Even though He had not seen the woman or even knew who she was He sensed that there had been a power drain from His body. Jesus stopped the trip to Jairus’ house to deal with the present situation. As will be seen it was more than the act of healing about which He was concerned. There was a greater issue that involved the spiritual well being of the woman. He immediately wanted to know who had touched Him. What He was really asking was where is the person who has been healed? Peter’s answer is interesting. He indicated that the people were pressing in very tightly about Him. This is a telling statement. Of all the people touching Him and getting close to Him only the woman received healing. Not receiving a satisfactory answer He emphatically stated, “Someone did touch Me, for I was aware that power has gone out of Me.”
- How did Jesus know that someone was healed?
- What did He do at that point? (He did not continue on to Jairus’ house until He had finished His dealing with the woman.)
- Why was the woman the only one healed of all those crowding in around Him?
- Why did the people miss out on the experience that the woman had? (They may have been following Him to see what He would do at the home of Jairus. They were curious as the action He might take.
- What had the woman hope to do? (Be healed and disappear.)
- Why was Jesus so emphatic in His attempt to find out who had been healed? (There was more than just physical healing that needed to occur.)
- What does this show about the feeling of Jesus for each of us?
Luke 8:47-48
When the woman found that she would not be able to get away from Jesus until she revealed herself, she came and fell down before Him. There is no way to know what thoughts were going through her mind. She may have even wondered if He would take away her healing because of her actions. She had been disappointed so many times before she may have decided this one might end in the same way.
Immediately, she confessed what she had done and the reason for it. Rather than condemning her He gave the greatest gift of all. He called her daughter and affirmed that it was her faith that had brought about her healing. As He did with others He commanded her to go in peace with the realization that she truly was healed.
- What did the woman soon realize?
- Why would Jesus not let her hide?
- Once she realized that she could not hide what thoughts may have gone through her head?
- Why did Jesus wait until she had confessed before declaring her completely healed? (Without the peace and assurance from Him, she could never be sure if what had occurred was real and permanent.)
- Why will Jesus not allow any of us to hide in the crowds of this world?
- How does He deal with men? (One at a time)
- What are the things that you need to confess that will free you and give you peace?
Luke 8:49
Luke then returned to Jairus who had to endure in agony and possibly patience the time that Jesus had taken with the woman. Surely, he must have wondered, did Jesus not understand the urgency of the crisis that was taking place in the life of his daughter? To add to his angst, someone came to him with the news that his daughter was dead and he did not need to bother Jesus any longer. One can only imagine what Jairus must have felt at that moment. His daughter was dead and the One who may have helped her had spent precious moments with the other woman.
- What was possibly going on in Jairus’ mind the whole time Jesus was dealing with the woman?
- How would Jairus’ thinking change when he found out his daughter had dead?
- On what occasion have you anguished over a child and wondered why no one seemed to be able to help you?
- What did Jairus not know about Jesus? (He had authority even over death.)
- Why didn’t Jesus rush over to the home of Jairus like so many of us would have done?
- What were the crowds expecting?
- What would the news of the death done to the mindset of the crowds? (See John 11:37)
Luke 8:50
Two things that Jesus heard caused him to respond to Jairus.
- The news of the death of his daughter.
- The words of the crowd telling him not to bother Jesus anymore because there was no hope.
Jesus then said to him directly and the crowd indirectly that he needed to continue to believe. His faith would bring about her healing. Her life would only be final if he gave up on the faith that brought him to Jesus in the first place.
- Why did Jesus feel a need to speak to Jairus? (Jairus may have believed the messenger and given up.)
- What part did the faith of Jairus play in the healing of his daughter?
- Why did Jesus speak of her healing and not raising her from the dead? (Death would have been final. The little girl was yet to live.)
- If Jesus had agreed with the messengers and turned away what impact would His ministry have among the people?
- What happens to the faith of the people when we do not follow through with our ministry to them?
Luke 8:51
Jesus did not turn away from Jairus but went on to his home. Only Peter, James and John and the parents were allowed to go into the room where the little girl was. The action that was about to taken was for the benefit of the family and a learning experience for the three disciples. All of the professional mourners were kept outside. His words to that group were to stop weeping and mourning for someone who was not dead but sleeping. They of course did not understand what He meant and began to make fun of His remarks. In their minds they knew that she was dead. Another valid reason to exclude them was their lack of faith. They could have easily caused Jairus’ faith to falter. His faith was to be instrumental in the healing of his daughter and must not lag.
- What did the fact that Jesus continued on to his house say to Jairus?
- Why did Jesus only allow the inner circle of disciples and the parents to enter the room with Him? (It was for the family and not meant to be like a circus. They were the ones most affected by the little girl’s death.)
- Why were the professional mourners kept outside? (They may have frightened the little girl as she awoke from her sleep. To witness such a miracle would have stirred up the crowd to demand more and more from Jesus. Their lack of faith would be a hindrance to what He was about to do.)
- Why did the crowd make fun of Jesus’ words? (They truly did not understand His authority over death. They may have also concluded that He was not taking the death of the girl seriously and was only saying those words to placate the parents.)
- How might their continual display of grief and ridicule of Jesus’ words affect the faith of Jairus?
- How would a superficial regard for the things of God affect the faith of a non or new believer?
- How do we keep that from happening?
Luke 8:54-56
Once they were alone, Jesus turned His attention toward the daughter. His words rang out with authority as He took her by the hand and commanded her to get up. She did as she was told as she came back to life. Jesus immediately commanded that she be given something to eat. This act did two things.
- It proved to the parents that she was indeed allright.
- It also diverted attention away from Jesus.
Even though Jairus had displayed faith in going to Jesus, this was beyond what he expected. He had gone to ask Jesus to heal a sick girl but ended with her being raised from the dead. It would be expected that they would be full of amazement that such a thing could be done. To keep what had occurred from being broadcast, they were told not to share it with anyone. Jesus was not into promoting Himself as a miracle worker. That was not His primary mission.
- Why did He use such strong words to speak to the daughter? (It was to emphasize His authority over death.)
- Why was Jairus amazed when Jesus healed his daughter? (He was only expecting Jesus to do what He had done before, heal the sick not to raise the dead.)
- Why did Jesus not want the family to tell what He had done?
- What has Jesus done in your life or those you know that has completely amazed you?
- Why are we now to proclaim what Jesus has done rather than keeping it quiet?
- Read once again Galatians 5:22. Notice that patience is one of the fruit of the Spirit.
- See if you are trying to get ahead of God in a decision you are facing.
- Look at your life and see if the lack of faith is stymieing what Christ truly wants to do for you.
- Do not take your walk with Jesus lightly. Let Him work deep into your heart to change you into one who loves Him with all your heart, soul and mind.
- Look at how Jesus had authority over the woman’s problem and death and believe He wants to do the same kind of work in you.
- Do not ever try to hide from God but come to Him and confess all that we have done to receive forgiveness and healing of our spirit.
Jairus set the example for all of us. Even as a leader in the synagogue he became desperate enough that he was willing to forget all of the traditions of his religion and reach out to the one person he knew could help him. Jesus was not popular among the Jewish leaders but Jairus did not care what others thought. He needed help. The woman was so ashamed of her condition that she hoped she could just blend in with crowd and touch Jesus as so many others were doing and no one would ever know she had been there. For her to have to confess her past face to face with Jesus was a difficult thing to do. We need to be so compassionate towards the Jairus’ and women of the world that they believe that there will be no condemnation when they do not know and rules and traditions. As Jesus displayed patience with the woman and Jairus had to be patient to realize that Jesus would carry through with the healing of his daughter even though she was dead.
Jesus is patient with the church when we fail Him as we so often do. He continues to call us to face Him and confess our wrong doings. When we are willing to forget ourselves and turn everything over to Him He will bring healing to us and make us stronger to share His good news to those who need to hear it.