Lesson 50
Victory in Prayer
Luke 18:1-17
Many years ago I first heard of the term aggressive-patience. The idea itself seemed to be a dichotomy. How could being aggressive fit in with patience. The more I thought about it the more it made sense to me. It carried with it the concept if you keep saying something long enough that eventually someone will begin claim it as their own idea. In his book “Outliers” Malcomn Gladwell talks about the overnight successes ten years in the making. According to him it takes about ten years for someone to become successful in their endeavors. He used people like Bill Gates who worked at learning about programming all during his teenage years. When the opportunity presented itself he became what so many people call overnight successes.
There are areas in my own life that have been example of aggressive-patience. For years I felt that the group in which I worked was in the wrong place in the organization. After my retirement they put the people with whom I had worked under a vp in the president’s office. There they could support the whole organization without the hindrances place on them under the finance division.
One of the dangers of change is the lack of aggressive-patience. Whenever a new minister comes to a church he may see things that in his mind may need to be fixed. The older the congregation the more difficult it is to accept change of any kind. It has been said, it is much more difficult and takes more time to turn around an ocean liner than it does a row boat. Someone wrote that for changes to be effective it takes about seven years. In our paced society we are not usually inclined to wait that long. Most of us want the latest and greatest and we want it now. The problem is that the one place that does not go along with that concept is the church. We love to hold on to our traditions and programs.
Sadly in most denominations the normal tenure of pastors and teaching elders is shorter than three years. For youth and children’s ministers it is even shorter. What happens then is that a church is left with half-baked ideas that need a longer period of time to come to fruition. Statistics tell us that the greatest period of growth and health for church comes during the seven to fourteenth year of the leadership of a pastor or teaching elder. He and the whole church needs to practice aggressive-patience. The whole idea of vision is to keep promoting it until it becomes the idea of the whole congregation and then to reap the benefits of all working together.
Luke 18:1
One important aspect of prayer is to not give up until an answer comes. There have been many stories of parents who have prayed for the salvation of their children for years before they were actually saved. Jesus told His disciples to never lose heart. He was telling them not to become discouraged when God did not respond according to their timetable.
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Why did Jesus tell His disciples to never lose hope when praying? (We cannot know the timeing of God’s answer.)
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Why do people often stop praying for someone or something?
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What is the danger in doing so?
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When has there been a time when you received an answer to prayer only because you prayed until it came?
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Luke 18:2-5
Jesus then told a parable about a widow who needed protection from an opponent. The judge to whom she brought her case was a man who did not care about anyone nor did he fear God. She won the case because she was persistent. He finally agreed to give her protection because she had worn him down with her constant pleas. From the Greek it appears that what is actually meant by her wearing down was his fear that she might give him a literal black eye. It is obvious that his decision was subjective and emotional and not based on the facts or the merits of the case but was subjective
The widow represents all of those who face the adversary, the devil and his continual opposition to man. It is interesting that it appears that she must face him alone before a judge who has no interest in helping her. Job sought an advocate (Job 16:19). After the resurrection John wrote that “We have an advocate with the Father.” (1 John 2:1) What a difference the work on the cross made for mankind in his relationship to the Father.
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Why did the woman continue to plea her case? (Because she felt it was justified.)
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Why did the judge continue to listen to her? (She was not going to stop until the situation was rectified.)
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How do we often face a situation like this? (When someone says no the first time we give up.)
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When should we be as persistent as the woman? (When we seek to have God’s will done in our life or a situation needs to be rectified.)
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Why did the judge finally give in to her?
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On what occasions have you been determined not to take no for an answer?
Luke 18:6
It was important that the disciples understood what Jesus was trying to teach them about prayer. It really is a task for the strong in spirit. The point He was trying to get across was found in the words of the judge that basically said that he listened to the women because she would not relent in her efforts. Her persistence brought about a resolution of her dilemma.
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Why was the words of the judge important? (It showed the reason for his judgment in her favor.)
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What does it take for God to listen to you in prayer? (To come before Him in sincerity and humility believing He will answer our prayers.)
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How does her example reflect your own prayer life?
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How does it affect your belief in God’s ability to answer prayers?
Luke 18:7-8a
It must be understood that this parable is not about comparisons but contrasts. If mere men will listen and give judgment grudgingly based on human emotions in the favor of those who present their case, then it can be expected that God who loves His people will heed the call from a desperate heart. Those who cry out day and night will be heard and will find relief. Luke said God will not delay in responding to a request from one of His children. Although to man it may seem long coming the answer comes in God’s perfect timing.
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In what ways is God like the godless judge? (Both give an answer to our pleas.)
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In what ways is He different? (He does not hear our request begrudgingly but with a loving heart and decide on them in a capricious way.)
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What did Jesus mean by the words crying out to God day and night? (Prayer takes time and must be from the heart broken before God.)
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What did Jesus mean by saying that God would not delay long? (God answers in His perfect timing.)
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If that is true why do answers to prayer seem so long coming? (Because we want immediate results.)
Luke 18:8b
The question Jesus asked His disciples was a rhetorical one. There was no doubt that when He returned He would find those who had remained faithful in spite of the persecution and opposition they as well as those alive today face. There are examples all over the world of men/women and children remaining faithful to Christ to the death. There is a book out right now that speaks to this very question. It is “The Insanity of God” which tells the stories of those in places like Russia and China who refuse to be defeated by the devil. The writer’s of the New Testament were so sure that there would be Followers of Christ that they spoke a great deal of what happens at the end of time. Without faith there would be no rapture of believers or the images of heaven painted by Paul in Corinthians and John in “The Revelation.”
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How do we know that this was a rhetorical question?
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What evidences do we have today that He will find Followers of Christ when He returns?
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What evidences do the Scriptures provide for us that He will find believers? (Paul’s writings about the rapture and John’s picture of heaven.)
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How does John 14:1-6 speak to question Jesus asked?
Luke 18:9
Although this parable does not appear, at the offset, to be about prayer it does give a picture of the attitude one must have to come before God. He begins by speaking directly to the pharisaic mindset. This would include the pharisees and those who thought like them. His words were a warning to the disciples to watch out for those who thought highly of themselves an held everyone else in contempt. Today words like self-centered, proud, arrogant, and elitist might be used to describe them.
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Why did Jesus find it necessary to speak about the attitudes of those like the Pharisees?
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What barrier does this kind of mindset erect between them and God? (There is no room in the heart of the proud for God.)
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What terms might we use to describe such men today?
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In what ways is this a struggle that each of us face?
Luke 18:10-12
There were two men who found themselves in the temple at the same time. The first one that Jesus described was the Pharisee. It is very revealing of the man’s character that he was praying to himself. Although Jesus called it a prayer is was more an example of telling God what the Pharisee thought of himself. Like many today he was building himself up by comparing himself with those he regarded as the worse of sinners, including “swindlers, unjust, adulterers” and of course the tax collector who was there at the same time. He went on to inform God that not only was he not like others but his actions indicated how righteous he was. He fasted twice a week and tithed.
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What was the content of the Pharisee’s prayer?
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What was he really doing?
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How much are your prayers like or not like that of the Pharisees?
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What did his proclamation show about his concern for others?
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If he was genuine in his faith what should he have been doing? (Praying for others rather than holding them in contempt.)
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How often do you pray for the spiritual welfare of others?
Luke 18:13
Without further comment about the Pharisee at that moment, Jesus then turned His attention to the tax collector. Rather than being at the center of the temple the publican stood off to one side by himself as if he was almost ashamed of even being in the place of worship. His words were much different from those of the Pharisee and showed a humble heart broken by his sin. He cried out to God with every thing that was in him seeking God’s mercy upon his life. Unlike the Pharisee, he readily admitted that he was a sinner and the only relief he could get from his condition had to come from God.
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In what ways was the tax collector different from the Pharisee? (He admitted to be sinful while the Pharisee was self-righteous in all aspects of his life?
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How did his prayer differ from that of the Pharisee?
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What can we tell about his heart from what Jesus shared in this parable?
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How does what he prayed compare with the words of David in Psalm 51?
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When you pray which are you more like the tax collector or the Pharisee?
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Do you proclaim your righteousness or throw yourselves on the mercy of God?
Luke 18:14
Jesus then rendered a judgment on the actions of the two men beginning with the tax collector. He said that he went home forgiven of his sin. The word He was justified which in a way would indicate that the slate of that man’s sinful life was wiped clean. Isaiah spoke to the nature of God’s forgiveness when he wrote, “Though your sins be as scarlet, they will be as white as snow.” (Isaiah 1:18) There would be no evidence that the man had ever sinned because he repented of those things that kept him apart from God.
On the other hand the man who had proclaimed to God how righteous he was returned home with the guilt of sin remaining upon his life. The attitude that man is to have before God is summed up in the next statement by Jesus.
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To exalt oneself will lead to his downfall, being humbled.
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The one who approaches God with total humility will be lifted up and receive the praise of His Father.
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What does it take to be completely forgiven of your sins?
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What does it take for a person to be assured of eternal life? (More about this in next week’s lesson.)
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How different was the judgment rendered to each man?
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What does it mean to be justified before God?
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How does Isaiah 1:18 speak to the life the tax collector possessed?
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Why was the Pharisee not justified? (He had confessed or repented of any of his actions or attitudes.)
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How do you think God views your prayers?
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Why does it sometimes seems that He does not answer them?
Luke 18:15-17
In this incident can be seen both the attitudes of the Pharisees in the actions of the disciples resulting in condemnation of that behavior. They may have been trying to protect Jesus from the crowds or felt He
should be spending time with them or only adults. The words of Jesus also pictured the heart
of the tax collector. He was humble, vulnerable and disliked by others because of his occupation.
Jesus would have no part in their actions. He commanded them to bring the children to Him for they were examples of those who were “poor in spirit.” The kingdom would belong to the downtrodden, those who did not add anything to society, dependent on others, weak and vulnerable. All of this added up to a humility expressed by the tax collector and children alike.
Finally, He struck at the heart of the prideful who looked in contempt on those they considered as less worthy than themselves. Those who were not willing to humble themselves before God would find there was no place in God’s kingdom.
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Why did the disciples try to keep the children from Jesus? (To protect Him from being overwhelmed or wanted all the time for themselves.)
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Why did Jesus condemn such actions and attitudes?
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How close was what they did to what the Pharisees did in the parable? (Discounted the value of the children.
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What was the general attitude towards children? (Not valuable to society.)
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Who in the words of Jesus is going to be a part of God’s kingdom?
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What is your attitude towards those who are babes in the faith?
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In your prayer life come before God in all humility.
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Do not tout your attributes before God as if you are doing Him a favor by even talking to Him.
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Understand that you are to pray until you and God are of the same mindset.
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Wait patiently for answers while at the same time to not stop praying until you understand the answer God is giving you.
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Give thanks when He answers your prayers. Quite often we go on our way once we have received an answer and never praise Him for what He has done.
One of the reasons that quite often exciting things do not happen in our midst is because we try to do them without the affirmation of God that only comes through fervent prayer. God wants to do so much in our lives yet we shortchange ourselves and disappoint Him when we go our own way. Jesus never made an important decision without prayer. He spent a night praying for His disciples before selecting the twelve who would be closest too Him. Even on the night before He went to the cross Jesus spent time before His Father. Let us be a church that perseveres in prayer like the widow. Our time before God should be with the same heart attitude as the tax-collector. We need to always be aware that we are to be like the children who are totally dependent on Him. If we do all of these things we will be a part of God’s kingdom both in this world and the next.
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