Lesson 42
Reconciliation in a Foreign Land
Genesis 45
One of the things I enjoy doing is working puzzles. To see all the different shaped pieces or words come together gives me a satisfaction of having completed them. This holds true whether it happens to be a jigsaw or crossword puzzle. One of the frustrating parts of working puzzles is having piece missing. Of course I never realize this until the very end. Either I find that I cannot figure out the connecting words or one of the pieces has been lost, usually in the chair or on the floor. It goes without saying to have one piece missing spoils the whole picture.
What I have discovered is my life is somewhat like those puzzles. God is fitting the pieces of my gifts, talents, abilities, personality and experiences into a completed picture of what He would have me to be. Of course this can only occur if I obey Him and live the lifestyle that He has set out for me. Quite often I am like the puzzle that is missing the right letter or the last piece because I choose to try and do things on my own. It never works. The work that God is trying to accomplish in me is spoiled. It is only through the reconciliation that I have through Jesus that I able obey Him and truly fulfill the purpose he has for me.
What is true with each individual is also of the church. The body is comprised of people who are different in many ways. All too often the church does not present a complete picture of Christ at work in its midst because, we as people have our own ideas of what it should look like. We forget that we are the body and Christ is the head of the church. Somehow we get the idea that we can function without the head. God has called us to unity. The one unifying person who can take all of the diverse people and make them one is His Son. The Bible tells us that we are to be reconciled in Christ Jesus. We are also called to be reconciled to each other. Only when both of those things happen can we truly operate as one body, under one head.
In God’s economy the years of heartache were about to come to an end for Jacob and Joseph. There were details in the lives of the brothers that needed to be worked out before that could occur. God was about to do something dramatic.
Genesis 45:1-3
Upon hearing the words of his brother Judah, Joseph could no longer hold back the tears that came. Because of Judah’s words he knew that Benjamin was loved and safe.
To be sure the emotions that brought about the weeping were a culmination of all that had happened in his life. For years he had been the one who seemingly was in control. There is no mention of him, other than crying when he saw Benjamin for the first time, displaying the emotions that now burst forth. His weeping was so loud that it was heard by all of the Egyptians and as far as Pharaoh’s house.
This was a precious time for him and at that moment he wanted to be alone with his brothers. He ordered all of the Egyptians in the house to leave. It was to be a private time together with them when he broke the news that they were talking with the brother they thought was dead.
Finally the time came to reveal himself to his brothers. As has been mentioned before, he had put them through some pretty difficult times of testing. It all culminated with the words of Judah. The very next thing he wanted to know was Jacob was still alive. His question was one of hope that he might see his father again. Why were Judah’s words so important to Joseph?
One can only imagine the shock Joseph’s statement was to his brothers. They could not even answer his question about his father because of their dismay.
- Why did the words of Judah cause such a rush of emotion from him?
- What did he finally know about his brothers?
- Why do we not have a record of such a display before this point?
- Why did Joseph finally see this as the moment he could reveal himself to them?
- In what ways might you respond to an unexpected statement like the one made by Joseph?
- Why did he ask again about his father?
Genesis 45:4
When he saw that they stood there before him in total disbelief, he brought them close enough so they could tell who he was. At close range they were able to recognize him. To help them he told them something that only they would know. He recounted the fact that they had sold him to those going down to Egypt. It is not difficult to understand why the brothers had trouble recognizing him. Aside from the twenty some years since they had seen him, they had assumed that he was probably dead, based on their previous conversations.
To accept the fact that he was actually alive would make them face the reality of what they had done to him. They at that point did not know what Joseph might do to them. He had the power to mete out a severe punishment in revenge.
Remember, how the disciples had trouble recognizing Jesus after His resurrection. He had only been away from them three days. Mary, the men on the Road to Emmaus and the disciples on the first night were not sure to whom they were talking.
- Why it hard for the brothers to believe that the man standing before them was actually Joseph?
- What had they assumed had happened to them?
- Why do we have a difficult time recognizing people in different circumstances?
- Why did the brothers possibly not want to believe that it was actually Joseph?
- What could Joseph had done to them at that moment?
- What previous actions by him would indicate that he was not going to take revenge on them?
Genesis 45:5-8
Then came the moment Joseph had desired from the very beginning. His words were those of forgiveness and reconciliation. He first tried to alleviate any fears they had about what might happen to them. Indeed they had sold him into Egypt. Joseph, however, saw the hand of God in everything that happened. He believed that God was the One who actually had sent him to Egypt to preserve the lives of not only the Egyptians but his own family. Of course until that moment even Joseph could not have known the plans God had for him and his family.
He explained that the famine was not going to end immediately, but would be lasting another five years. To reinforce what he had just told them he again said to them, “God sent me before you to preserve for you a remnant in the earth, and to keep you alive by a great deliverance.”
What a beautiful picture of grace is found in this one verse. Colossians 1:21-22 says, “And although you were formerly alienated and hostile in mind, engaged in evil deeds, yet He has now reconciled you in His fleshy body through death, in order to present you before Him holy and blameless and beyond reproach.” In Romans Paul said, “God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8) They had done nothing to deserve the kindness of their brother, but he freely gave them what they could not do for themselves. They had the opportunity to be free from guilt and a new life under his protection and care.
Joseph’s brothers were in a position where they could not help themselves. Because of the famine they did not even have the ability to provide for their own families. They had to put all of their trust in the hands of Joseph. The one so despised was now the only one who could save them. Again in Romans are found these words, “While we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.” (Romans 5:6)
God had allowed all of the events to take place. Through Joseph He was going to preserve His people. Much more has been given to man through the work of His Son.
- What was the greatest gift Joseph could give his brothers?
- Why was he able to forgive them?
- For what purpose had God sent him into a hostile and alien world?
- Why did God send His son into a world alienated from Him?
- What two things could Joseph do for them that they could not do for themselves?
- What did Jesus do for us that we cannot do?
Genesis 45:9-11
Joseph did not waste any time in giving his brothers a new command. They were to leave immediately return to Jacob with the news that he was master in Egypt. The second part of the command of the command was to bring his father down to him. He even told them that they would live in the land of Goshen, once all of them came down from Canaan. This was to be a strategic move in the plan of God. By living in Goshen they would be insulated from the influences of the Egyptian culture. They would be able to maintain their identity as God’s chosen people. Also, when the famine ended it would be a good land for maintaining their flocks.
To Joseph the most important factor was that he would have his family close by and he would be able to provide for all of their needs. If they had any idea that they would be able to sustain themselves at home, he again told them that the famine would continue for another five years.
- Why was Joseph so anxious for his brothers to return to Canaan?
- What did he tell them they were to do?
- What was the significance of the land of Goshen?
- How can Goshen be an example for God’s people today?
- What did it mean for Joseph to have his family close by him?
- How important was it for Joseph to be in the position he was in Egypt? Why?
Genesis 45:12
Again Joseph emphasized to them that he truly was their brother. From his words it is clear that after recovering from the shock that he was still alive and in a powerful position, they finally recognized him. More important to him was the fact that Benjamin now knew that his brother was standing right in front of him.
- Why did Joseph once again have to explain to his brothers that it was he who was speaking to them?
- Why does it sometimes take us a long time to accept the reality of things that are right before us?
- Why was it important to him that Benjamin recognize him?
Genesis 45:13
Joseph knew that his father would not leave Canaan just to obtain food. He therefore told his brothers they were to share the position Joseph held and how Jacob would live in comfort with him in Egypt. They would be eyewitnesses to all he had told them. Once again he commanded them to bring his father down to him. He once again spoke of the urgency of the mission.
- What would it take to get Jacob to leave Canaan?
- Why did Joseph speak of the splendor as a personal matter?
- Why was the task he gave his brothers so urgent?
Genesis 45:14-15
Again Joseph was overcome the by emotion of having his brothers with him. His tears may have also come because of their reticence to believe that he was actually their brother and that he did not hold what they had done against them. He first wept on Benjamin’s neck. Then he kissed his brothers and embraced them as he wept. This was the sign that the brothers needed to know that all had been forgiven. They were then able to fellowship with him. It was a freedom that they had not experienced in a long time.
- Why was Joseph again overcome by emotion?
- Why would they brothers still been cautious?
- Why did he first weep on the neck of Benjamin?
- At what point did the brothers have a sense of relief?
- What does freedom allow us to do and be a relationship?
- In what way does this incident once again show the grace of God?
- Why are we sometimes so cautious about being free in our relationship with Him?
Genesis 45:16-20
Pharaoh heard about the arrival of Joseph’s brothers. Because of the relationship he had with Joseph, he and his whole household were pleased that the family was back together and Joseph was no longer alone in Egypt. The Pharaoh then gave provisions for the trip. He also instructed Joseph that his family would be able to live on the best land of Egypt. This opened the door for the fulfillment of Joseph’s promise that they would live in Goshen. The brothers would not have to walk or ride on donkeys for the journey to and from Canaan. Pharaoh provided wagons to transport all of Jacob’s family to Egypt.
- Why did it please Pharaoh when he heard that Joseph’s brothers had arrived?
- What does this say about his relationship with Joseph?
- How did he make the trip easier?
- What important promise did he make to Joseph?
- Why was such a promise so important?
- What was the trip down to Egypt to mean for Jacob’s family?
- In what way does this symbolize what God is trying to do for us?
Genesis 45:21-23
Besides the wagons that Pharaoh had provided, Joseph made his own contribution for the trip. He gave them changes of garments. To Benjamin he gave him a gift of three hundred pieces of silver and five changes of clothes.
For his father he sent:
- Ten donkey with all the best that Egypt had to offer
- Ten female donkeys loaded with grain
- Bread and sustenance for the trip down to Egypt.
His parting words to his brothers as they left were for them not to quarrel on the trip. He had seen evidence in the past and wanted to hurry and not be caught up in any quibbling about what needed to occur.
- Why did he give more to Benjamin?
- What does God provide for us to carry out His purpose in this world?
- Why did he warn them not to quarrel along the way?
- What could the subject of any arguments?
- What did he want to happen?
- In what ways does conflict slow down what God wants to accomplish through the church?
Genesis 45:25-28
When the brothers returned to Canaan they brought the news to Jacob that Joseph was alive. He went on to say that he was ruler over all of Egypt. As would be expected he was shocked at the words of his sons. At first he did not believe. He was finally convinced by the words of that Joseph had shared with his brothers. The other evidence that could not be denied was all of the provisions that had been sent to him. The Bible tells us that his spirit revived. This could be mean two things:
- That he recovered from the shock of hearing Joseph was alive.
- For the first time in years happiness and joy returned to his life and he once again felt alive.
Moses then called him Israel. It was to be the one who had been given the covenant of God who would be the one to go down to Egypt. Jacob would be left behind in Canaan. God was about to begin a new chapter in the history of His people. They were about to begin the journey that would fulfill the prophecy given back in Genesis 15:13-14. Israel immediately planned to go down to see the son he thought was dead but now alive.
- Why would it be a natural thing for Jacob to be stunned by the words of his sons?
- Why did he not believe them?
- What did it take for him to accept their words?
- What does the Scripture means when it speaks of Jacob’s spirit was revived?
- Why did Moses change from using the name Jacob to once again calling him Israel?
- How was what about to occur, a fulfillment of the prophecy given to Abraham?
- What evidence do we need that will enable us to strike out on the journey God has planned for each of us?
What a beautiful picture has been given through this passage in Genesis about forgiveness and reconciliation. It has been part of God’s plan ever since the garden to bring mankind back into an intimate relationship with Him. What does this narrative say to you about how we view others and God?
- Always be willing to take the initiative to forgive.
- Salvation in your life is God reconciling you to Himself.
- Read 2 Cor. 5:17-21 and Col. 1:20-22 to get a clear picture of what God wants to do in your life.
- Remember that ultimate forgiveness comes from God
- Renew your relationship with the Father who loves you enough to send His Son as you celebrate this Christmas.
- Read Roman 8:28-29
- Realize that what we may consider a difficulty may be part of God’s plan for your life.
- Remember God is continually providing you with the strength received through the Holy Spirit for the challenges facing you.
When we read an account of people’s lives like the one we have just finished, it should give us a sense that God truly had done a marvelous work. To think that it took twenty some years and a famine to bring the family back to together, is amazing.
Stories like this are happening all around us. Every time someone comes to Christ it is as a lost member of the God’s family has come home. We all too often take the salvation of an individual for granted. To God and it should be to us an event of epic proportion. The battle for men’s souls is never going to be easy, because the world and all it offers is so attractive. As we read in Colossians each of us at some point lived apart from God and hostile to him. While in that condition we were engaged in activities contrary to God’s will for us.
Our business is an important aspect of what God is trying to do in this perverse and crooked world. We are to be those who live out the good news and sharers of the gospel to those who desperately need it. Only then will the reconciliation promised in the Bible take place. Let us have the heart of Joseph and do everything possible to see people saved.
Additional notes:
BL- In chapter 45, vv. 4-11, Joseph fulfills that purpose for which he was ultimately intended. He graciously (with emphasis on the word “grace”!) forgives his brothers for all they have done to him, freeing them from the prison of guilt and fear they have lived in for 22 years. Rather than punishing them, which is what they expect (and deserve!), Joseph tells them in vv. 5-7, “. . .do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. . .to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance.” Joseph has saved his family from starvation; but by bringing them to Egypt, he is also protecting them from succumbing to the influence of the pagan peoples of Canaan. Several of his brothers have already married Canaanite women, thereby endangering the inheritance that God has in store for Jacob’s tribe. In Egypt, Joseph knows they will be safe–he tells them his brothers in 46:34 that the Egyptians despise shepherds, so the Israelites are certain to be left by themselves. Thus, as Pharoah’s top administrator, Joseph is able both to preserve his family and to ensure their future success as a nation set apart for God.
Buddy stopped here to point out some ways in which Joseph parallels our Lord Jesus Christ. Like Joseph, Christ provides forgiveness from sin and salvation from death; but we must come to Him to receive it, just as Joseph’s brothers had to leave Canaan and come to Joseph to find grain. Like Joseph, Christ does not punish us as we so justly deserve; but when we come to Him in true repentance, He graciously forgives us and restores us to fellowship with Him. And like Joseph, our Lord provides for the needs of His children and continues to bless us with innumerable blessings.
RT-Life is too short not to be reconciled with those we perceive as having done wrong to us. God calls us to forgive them. The attitude of Joseph should be held up as an example for us. Out of life’s circumstance we should be able to see the hand of God moving in our lives for our good and the benefit of others. Joseph certainly did not view all that happened in his life with a selfish victim mentality. He was able to see the bigger picture. His hope from the beginning, knowing that his father was still alive, may have been to have the opportunity to preserve his family. Long gone were the thoughts of the dreams he had dreamed those 32 years earlier, even if they were now coming to fruition. They were replaced by the joy of seeing his family once again. (Gen. 45:2-8)
C-The brothers displayed a change of attitude towards Joseph. (Gen. 45:3-15)
RT- Joseph’s brothers tried to rid themselves of what they construed to be their problem only to find salvation in Egypt where Joseph had been sent by God. (Gen. 45:5, 7)
UE-After all he had experienced since his brothers had sold him, he would say, “Now do not be grieved or angry with yourselves, because you sold me here, for God sent me before you to preserve life.” (Gen. 45:5, 7-8, 20)
TM-Joseph’s statement about the preservation of his family is a lesson for each of us. We are each here at this particular time and place for a purpose given to us from God. Paul called it a “holy calling not according to our works, but according to God’s purpose.” (2 Tim. 1:9) We must not be so blind and have closed minds to miss what God has for us to do or be. He saw events like this one from God’s perspective. (Gen. 45:5-8)
TM-Joseph’s reaction is also an important lesson for us about forgiveness. (Gen. 45:5)
GC-When Joseph stated to his brothers, “God sent me before you to preserve life,” we can clearly see that each person has a purpose in life. If we are willing to acknowledge that fact, we will be able to accomplish that purpose. (Gen. 45:5; 50:19)
M-The one thing that kept Joseph going all those years was the realization that it was God who sent him to Egypt. Now, with the arrival of his brothers, he realized the purpose for which he had borne all the trials, disappointments and imprisonment. He had been sent “to preserve for you (Jacob’s family) a remnant in the earth, and to keep you alive by a great deliverance. (Gen. 45:7)
GC-Why did Joseph expect God to act? He had seen God at work in every situation in which he found himself. Because he saw his life in relation to that strong conviction, when he had an opportunity to take revenge on his brothers, he neither wanted to nor felt the necessity to do so. How many different opportunities did he have to punish his brothers? Why did he not do it? After his father had died, why were the brothers so concerned? (Gen. 45:7; 50:15-20)
C-Once Joseph could not save him from the schemes of his brothers. He now was able to save them and his father from sure death if they had remained in Canaan. (Gen. 45:7-8;
GC-Why did Joseph expect God to act? He had seen God at work in every situation in which he found himself. Because he saw his life in relation to that strong conviction, when he had an opportunity to take revenge on his brothers, he neither wanted to nor felt the necessity to do so. How many different opportunities did he have to punish his brothers? Why did he not do it? After his father had died, why were the brothers so concerned? (Gen. 45:7; 50:15-20)
RT- No one would logically think that a teenage dreamer in Jacob’s home would one day become a ruler in Egypt, second only to Pharaoh in power and authority. (Gen 45:8-26; 47:4, 12)