Lesson 1
The Danger of a Closed Door
There are many avenues to receive the truth of God’s word. I try to keep my mind and heart open to learn what God is trying to say through His instruments. It is obvious from Ephesians 4:11 that God has gifted all of us in different ways. He is very clear in spelling out that there are going to be Evangelists, Overseers and Teachers. There is nothing like hearing an evangelist who may come to the church with a challenging set of messages to stir our hearts. That excitement may last for a while but eventually we may drift away from the teaching of those days. The Overseer/Teaching Elder, as well as the Teachers of small groups, has the ongoing responsibility nourishing the church out of God’s word. It is important to me to know that what is being taught is the truth concerning God’s Son.
Thankfully, God has brought into my life over the years men who love God’s word and His people. From them I have come to have a real passion for the Scripture which would not be in my life if it had not been for their faithfulness in sharing it with all those who have come after them.
The church, especially the leaders, has been called to maintain the traditions and truth that will draw others to our Savior. Our attitudes toward those who have been called to preach and teach will be one of the determining factors of whether that congregation will truly be a witness for Christ in this world. It only takes one individual who decides that the church is their own personal property to destroy its credibility and mission. Whole churches have been torn apart because one person or a small group of people who have tried to control what is to be done. This is a sure way to bring about dissatisfaction in the lives of those who become frustrated with all of the infighting that takes place and will either take sides or leave. The Church is supposed to be unified under the headship of Jesus Christ. The sooner we realize it is not our church but His, the better off we will be. Today we will see the contrast of two different people in the same congregation. We have to determine for ourselves who is the role model who we would want to emulate.
3 John 1
Just as he had done in 2 John, John introduces himself as the elder. Having discussed this last week there is no further need to cover it again. The letter is addressed to one of those mysterious individuals about whom little is known. Gaius was a very popular name of the day and besides here in 3 John is found in at least three other places in the Bible. See Acts 19:29, 20:4 and 1 Corinthians 1:14. Because John specifically wrote him he must have held some type of leadership role in the church. It is obvious that John had great affection for the man identifying him as the beloved. That love came from the fact that both men were brothers who live in the truth found in the gospels. John could have been thinking of the command about which he had written in the first two letters.
- Why did John again refer to himself as elder?
- Why was John feelings toward Gaius?
- How would you want someone to identify you in a letter like the one written by John?
- What would it mean to you to have someone call you beloved?
- What brought about this bond between these two men? (Their mutual love for
Christ.)
3 John 2
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For the second time John used the word beloved. Gaius had been the object of his prayers. There were two specific things about which he prayed. One was for Gaius to be prosperous. The other was for him to remain healthy. There are not many cases in the New Testament when someone prayed for material prosperity. Gaius was probably a man who had the gift of giving. John knew that he would be one who handled wealth in a way that glorified God. There are those in the church who have been given much and have used the material blessings they have received to bless others. The second prayer was for physical health. John knew that Gaius’ vibrant leadership was needed in the church at that time. The first two requests flowed from the conviction that Gaius had a soul that was dynamic and growing in faith.
- How do you pray for others?
- How often do you pray for the spiritual well-being of others?
- Why did John pray for the material prosperity of Gaius? (He knew that Gaius was a man who could be trusted with wealth and would use what he had received for the glory of God.)
- Why was it important for Gaius to be physically fit? (The church needed strong healthy leaders at that crucial time because all that it was about to face.)
- In what ways would you consider that a person is prospering in his or her spiritual life? (There is real evidence that the person is growing to be more Christ like in his or her walk.)
3 John 3-4
The way that John knew what was occurring in the life of Gaius was others had seen the evidence that he was walking according to the truths found in the gospel and brought that information to John. To hear that those he had mentored were doing so well brought a joy to the life of John. He was thrilled to be able to confirm what he had heard in a letter back to his son in Christ. What encouragement that would have been to Gaius.
- What would a person who might have opportunity to tell others say about you?
- What would you want them to be able to tell about you?
- How can you make sure that your reputation is a good one?
- What would a good testimony do for you if someone told you what they had heard?
- When given the opportunity how often to you speak in a positive way about a fellow follower of Christ? (See Colossians 1: 7 for an example of the way Paul spoke of a fellow believer.)
- What is the last thing that we should do? (Tear someone down. If you have a problem with their walk, sit down and discuss it with them.)
3 John 5-6
John addresses one particular area in which Gaius has faithfully served the church. He was a man who welcomed everyone into the fellowship, especially strangers with open arms. The individuals to whom John was referring were the traveling evangelist, who went from church to church to share the gospel. They depended on the church to supply their support. Often times like the disciples who Jesus sent out they were to carry nothing that would hinder them from doing the work to which they had been called. See Luke 9 and 10. The greatest thing that any person in the church can do is to show agape love to those who come into its midst even if it is for a short period of time. Those who had come to church where Gaius served testified how genuine his love was towards them. It was his practice to make sure that they received material provisions to carry on their work.
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- What was the greatest gift Gaius possessed?
- Why is that gift needed in the church today?
- Who were strangers to whom John referred? (They were itinerant evangelists who traveled from place to place with having a permanent church home.)
- How were the men to be treated?
- How did Gaius show genuine love towards those men?
3 John 7-8
The men who were strangers accepted and cared for by Gaius would be those who traveled about because of their commitment to the cause of Christianity. They were not beggars who would take support from just anyone. Because they had remained faithful and refused to take money from the pagans identified here as Gentiles, the church was to provide support for them as fellow workers in the harvest. There are those who are called to leave home and the local church to preach and teach to a wider audience. (See Acts 1:8) Many will never either have the opportunity or avail themselves of going on faith to evangelize the world. Those who remain in the local church were to provide for those who had stepped out in faith to minister to others.
- Who were the strangers John wrote about here?
- What was and is the importance to such men and women to church? (They are willing and able to do what a local church member may never do.)
- How many of you have ever felt the call to evangelize beyond the doors of the church?
- In what ways does John’s directive resemble what takes place through the Southern Baptist Convention’s Cooperative Program and direct mission giving during the winter Lottie Moon and spring Annie Armstrong offerings?
- How do you feel when you have provided for the work that takes place beyond the door of the local church?
3 John 9
In contrast to Gaius John introduced previously he began to describe another individual present in the church. He also gave the reason that 3rd John was addressed to Gaius. Evidently, he had written to the church directly but the man Diotrephes had intercepted it and had not shared what John had to say to the people. Diotrephes wanted to be the most important person in the church and was not about to let John unseat him from his self proclaimed position.
- How was Diotrephes different than Gaius? (Humility versus arrogance and pride.)
- What have been the characteristics of those in the church who are like Diotrephes?
- What are the consequences to the church when such a man is allowed to assume power?
- How can we as a church keep this from happening? (The Elder structure is one way to make sure that no one person can take over control of the Body.)
- Why was he afraid of what John may have said in the letter mentioned in writing to Gaius?
- Why is open communication always the best policy for the Church?
3 John 10
There were several things that Diotrephes was doing that John was going to address when he came to visit the church. They included:
- Making false accusations against John and his companions using strong language.
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- Not receiving the traveling evangelists himself or allowing others to do so.
- Putting the men out of the church.
- None of these things should have been characteristic of the Church of Christ who accepted others with open arms.
- Which of those things committed by Diotrephes upset you the most?
- How does a person come to have this kind of power? (Because the church allows it to take place and does not deal with it through church discipline.)
- How is the church to deal with and individual with that kind of attitude and behavior?
- Why does it sometimes take an outsider to come in and deal with the issue? (A man like him can build strong allies in the church who are difficult to uproot.)
- How are the things done by Diotrephes opposed to everything the church is supposed to be about?
- What would such actions do to the reputation of Christ and His church?
3 John 11
John gives one more command and warning. He called the church to stay away from the kind of evil he has just addressed. Instead they are to do good. Only the good and righteous belong to God. The one who is evil like Diotrephes will never understand who God is because he belongs to the evil one. The lens through which he views the world is distorted by sin.
- What is the command John now gives?
- Why will a person like Diotrephes never see God?
- What are those things that keep us from really understanding God?
- What does it take to belong to God? (Be saved which will result in doing good?
3 John 12
One of the people who had come into the church was Demetrius. In contrast to Diotrephes he was highly regarded. Those who knew him saw him as one who was strong in his faith and remained true to the teachings of Jesus. John having known him agreed with their judgment of him. He ended by saying that the people who knew John could rely on him telling the truth. He used a term that he had used before when he affirmed, “Our testimony is true.
- In what ways was Demetrius different than Diotrephes?
- To which of these men would people compare you?
- How did personality of a traveling evangelist like Demetrius refute the intentions of evil men? (Evil men do not want the truth to become known because it will undermine their control over the people.)
- What was the icing on the cake in the testimony of Demetrius? (John’s trusted testimony.)
- Why would the people accept the testimony of John?
- Why would people accept what you might have to say about someone else?
3 John 13-14
As he had said in his previous letter he really wanted to share his heart with them in person. It is difficult to put on paper the passion that one might feel for the people. In this case there were issues that needed to be handled that would need face to face meetings.
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3 John 15
He finishes by wishing for them the true peace only found in a relationship with Jesus. Those who were with him joined in greeting them.
- Determine to walk in the way of truth so that your testimony before the world will not bring shame to you or your Lord.
- Always be hospitable to those who honor us with their presence.
- Always be open to hear the truth from many different sources.
- Never be one who hinders the work of the church by your words or actions.
- Stand strong against evil especially in the Body of Christ.
- Live in the peace that comes from a relationship found only in Jesus Christ.
What a picture of the diversity in the church. There were those who exemplified all that Christ had done in His life on earth. They were loving and giving. In them we see the kind of agape love that grows God’s kingdom. John could pray that a man like Gaius would possess the financial resources and physical well-being which would allow him to be a strong leader in the church. The picture John paints of him shows us a man with only one purpose in life. That purpose was to serve Christ and his fellow man to the best of his ability.
In contrast there was Diotrephes and his allies who claimed the church as their own. They were self-centered individuals who decided who would be allowed to teach and preach in the church even to the point of turning away godly men who had much to offer. He even so far has to try and discredit the apostle John who was respected by others as the elder.
Finally John identifies one of those strangers to the local church whose only desire was to share the good news of Jesus Christ at every opportunity. I am sure they did not understand the attitude of men who tried to control God’s people. They had seen so many places open to them and willing to listen to what they had to share.
This is only a narrow picture of all the different personalities attending any one local church. We must work very hard to make sure that no one is allowed to dominate and control the church. Each us must remember that we are the body and Christ is the head. We are here to serve Him and Him only. Anyone who goes beyond that one fact should be disciplined by the church. Time is too precious for us to be battling among ourselves when there is a greater enemy facing us today.
Each of us must follow the description of the Macedonians that Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 10:5. He said We are destroying speculation and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.” If each of us would have this mindset there would be no room for those would promote themselves to the detriment of the church. We would be a loving and inviting place to which all would want to come. In a church like that we can surely ones who make disciples who make disciples.
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