Lesson 47
Forgiven
Genesis 50
One of the strongest weapons Satan has is guilt. I know it is true because he has used it on me over the years. I am not talking about conviction of the Holy Spirit. When the Holy Spirit convicts of sin He calls me to confess that sin, to repent of it and to ask for forgiveness. At that point that sin is done in my life. This is where Satan shows up continually acting as an adversary who reminds me of what I have done. His ploy is to rob me of the assurance of God’s forgiveness. Of course he does not speak verbally, but if he drives me to dredge up old sins long forgiven what he is trying to do is convince me that God could not love someone like me because I have not been a good boy.
Thankfully, I can tell Satan to get lost. Jesus has taken care of all my sins past, present and future on the cross. There is a beautiful passage in Colossians that reads, “When you were dead in your transgressions and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our transgressions, having canceled out the certificate of debt consisting of decrees against us, which was hostile to us; and He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross. (Col. 2:13-14) I do not have to worry anymore when Satan tries to use his well known tactics because Christ has made a mockery of him and his legions. Christ has gained the victory for me.
Churches have a difficult time of letting go of past successes and failures. The danger is to look at the past and try to replicate it. We forget that each new generation brings with it changes and opportunities that were not always available. Trying to hold on to glories of days gone by may lead to frustration because they cannot be achieved. Even more difficult is trying to overcome things that may have caused conflict and division in the body. Hard feelings may still lie under the surface of civility. We forget that history is just that history. Unless we remember that Christ calls us to forgive others at least four hundred and ninety times then we cannot move on to a new day. Joseph, after the death of his father, was confronted with his ten brothers who could not forget what they had done many years earlier and were afraid that Joseph may not have forgotten either. Would the actions of Joseph help the family move forward or would they suffer the consequences of their actions?
Genesis 50:1
It was Joseph who was most affected by his father’s death. The Scripture mentioned only him as the one who went intor mourning. The other brothers were not there at the time of death or they did not have the same love and devotion for Jacob. Joseph fell on his father and wept and kissed him for one last time.
- Why was Joseph so affected by his father’s death?
- Why would the Scriptures not mention the other brothers?
- How would their relationship with him been affected by the giving of the blessings?
- Who are some of those who may have been relatives for whom you did not grieve as did Joseph?
- What caused the lack of emotion on your part?
- What did the death of Jacob signify?
Genesis 50:2-3
Once again Joseph took charge of the situation. Normally in the Middle East the person who died was buried the same day of his/her death because of the climate. The burial of Sarah was an example of the practice. Even Jesus was taken straight from the cross and put into the tomb. Joseph had the Egyptian embalmers prepare his father for burial. Jacob had commanded that he be taken back to Canaan which would have taken several days. For that reason alone it was necessary for Jacob to be embalmed. The process, which does not need to be discussed here, took forty days to complete. Out of their great love and respect for Joseph the Egyptians mourned for Jacob seventy days.
- Why was it Joseph who stepped forward to take charge of the situation?
- Why did he have his father embalmed?
- What examples do we see of what would have occurred at the death of a person in Canaan?
- How did the Egyptians show their affections for Joseph?
Genesis 50:4-6
Out of respect for the traditions of the Egyptians, Joseph waited until the official time of mourning was complete before making a formal request to Pharaoh for permission to travel to Canaan. He did not approach the Pharaoh himself but others intercede for him. His request indicated that he was trying to be obedient to the dictates of his father. He also promised to return to Egypt after the burial. There are two reasons that this promise was important.
- For all of the Israelites, especially Joseph, to leave would have been disruptive to life of the Egyptians because they had become such an integral part of the society.
- Although not mentioned, God had said that the nation of Israel would remain in Egypt in slavery for four hundred years.
Joseph’s word was good enough for the Pharaoh. He was a man of integrity and could be counted on to fulfill his promises. Pharaoh then released Joseph to carry out his father’s wishes.
- Why did Joseph have others speak to Pharaoh instead of going himself?
- What did he tell them to say?
- What were the words that the Pharaoh wanted to hear?
- Why was it important for the Israelites to return to Egypt?
- Why did Pharaoh let him go?
- In what ways is Joseph an example for us?
Genesis 50:7-9
Having made all of the preparations that could take place in Egypt, Joseph proceeded towards Canaan to bury his father. Not only did he and his brothers go but a large contingent of Egyptians, including the servants of the Pharaoh and the elders from his household and all of the land, also travelled with them. To show their intentions of returning, the brothers left their children and all of their livestock behind. There may also have been a practical reason for doing so. To carry their whole household would have made it an arduous and slow trip for them. Moses wrote that a large company went up from the land.
- Why did Joseph wait so long before going to Canaan?
- What did the brothers do that showed that the intended to return to Egypt?
- What was the meaning of the large contingent that accompanied the family?
- What did it say of the feelings they had for Joseph?
Genesis 50:10-11
One of the commentators wrote that the travelers took the same route that the Israelites would follow over four hundred years later. In that case the company of mourners would not have entered into Canaan but would have arrived to the east of the Jordan River to a place called the threshing floor of Atad. It is also a possibility that the threshing floor was on the western side of the river. This would seem to make more sense because the people living there were Canaanites.
Upon their arrival they continued with demonstrative mourning for another seven days. The inhabitants were so impressed with the actions of the strangers, concluding that some high ranking Egyptian official must have died, they called the place Abel-Mizraim. The meaning of the word is the mourning or meadow of the Egyptians. The people living in the area would have naturally thought it strange that an Egyptian would be buried away from his homeland.
- Which route would make more sense?
- Why did the Egyptians continue to be so emotional in mourning after the seventy days?
- What conclusions would have drawn by the inhabitants?
- Why did they rename the place where the Egyptians spent the seven days?
- Why would the people be perplexed about the whole affair?
Genesis 50:12-14
The sons, then following their father’s instructions, carried him to the cave which was in the field of Machpelah where his parents and grandparents were buried. After the private burial of his father Joseph returned to Egypt as he had promised.
- Why did the brothers leave the Egyptians behind as they proceeded to Machpelah?
- Why was this last act so important to them?
- How did Joseph show he was a man of integrity?
Genesis 50:15-17a
With the death of Jacob the brothers began to think about their future. In their minds there would be no further restraint placed on Joseph to keep him from taking revenge for what they had done to him so many years earlier. Sadly, the guilt that they carried for so long had never gone away. They were questioning if the kindness that their brother had shown them was just to please Jacob and was not genuine. Rather than accepting what Joseph had told them as the total truth, they had dreaded that day when they would have to confront their sin against him.
They chose representatives to take a message to Joseph. The words would give the first real evidence that Jacob had known what took place by in Canaan. It was also the first time they had totally confessed the wrong they committed against him. In the words of Jacob they were identified as brothers but in their confession they referred to themselves as servants.
- What tells us that Jacob knew what the brothers had done to Joseph?
- What does this passage tell us about the mental and spiritual condition of the brothers?
- Why were they not able to let go of their guilt?
- What affect did Joseph’s words spoken nineteen years earlier have on the brothers?
- Why were they not able to see the genuine compassion he had for them all those years?
- Why did they feel it was necessary to send a messenger instead of going themselves?
- Why do we hold onto the sins in our lives even after we know God has forgiven us?
Genesis 50:17b
When Joseph heard the words from the messengers he began to weep. The message from his brothers had to be disappointing and would have hurt him deeply. Surely, they could not believe he would do anything to harm them after providing for them all during and after the famine. It probably bothered him most of all to think that Jacob would think that he was capable of revenge. None of his family understood that he was completely different than all of all them.
- What caused Joseph to weep?
- What probably hurt him more than anything said?
- How did had his life action show that there was no basis for the concerns of the brothers?
- In what ways do we break the heart of God when we do not believe His words to us?
- What are some of the ways your heart has been broken by those for whom you care about great deal?
- How have others disappointed you?
- How did you react?
- How did your response differ from Joseph’s?
- In what ways did you see God working in the situation?
Genesis 50:18
Evidently the messengers carried the news back to the others about the reaction of Joseph to the words from the brothers. At that point the brothers decided it was safe to appear before Joseph. They came to him with a genuine sign of humility. Once again they bowed before him and called themselves his servants.
- What gave the brothers confidence to appear before Joseph?
- What do you think of their words and action when they came into his presence?
- What should our attitude be as we appear before God?
- What indicates they were finally willing to accept the consequences for their actions?
Genesis 50:19-21
Joseph had not changed in his feelings for his brothers since the first time he had seen them in Egypt. He truly believed that God was the One who had sent him there. What they had intended for evil turned out to be for the preservation of his family along with countless others during the famine. He reassured that nothing had changed. They had been forgiven and he would continue to provide for them and their families. After this incident, Moses wrote that “He comforted them and spoke kindly to them.”
- What is one of the qualities that you admire about Joseph?
- What was the one belief Joseph had held onto from the very beginning?
- What assurance did he give to his brothers?
- What did they need to hear?
- How has God taken the things in your life that seemed to be bad and turned them around for good?
- What do we receive from God in difficult times that gives the confidence to go on?
Genesis 50:22-26
The final years of Joseph’s life are given in these verses. He would have been fifty-six years old when Jacob died. For the rest of his life he stayed in Egypt along with his brothers and their families. The length of his life was one hundred ten years. He lived to see three generations of Ephraim’s children and also the son of Manasseh whose name was Machir. After all he had endured, those had to be years when he experienced the contentment of a life lived in obedience to God.
When he approached the end of his life, he called his brothers together and shared some comforting words to them. They were told
- God will take care of you.
- You will return to the land promised to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob
- To swear that they would take his bones back to Canaan when they returned from Egypt.
Joseph died in Egypt at the age of one hundred ten. He was embalmed but not buried because he was going back home one day.
- What did his last years mean to Joseph?
- What were the prophecies shared with his brothers?
- What one last request did he make of them?
- Why was he just embalmed and not buried?
- What are some of the most powerful lesson learned from the book of Genesis?
- What are some the examples of the gospel did you see in the book?
- Trust God for the promises made to us through His word.
- Never question the grace He has provided through His Son.
- Do not allow the devil to keep you from the relationship God wants to have with you.
- Remember that if you have confessed and repented of a sin then God has forgiven you and you must not hold onto them any longer.
- Think about those times that seemed so difficult and remember how God has turned them around.
- Remember that guilt is the great destroyer of any relationship.
- Learn to handle hurts and disappointments with grace.
Our study in Genesis has come to the end, but is it really the end? The lessons of new beginnings and changes will never leave us as we grow in wisdom and knowledge. We have seen all the characteristics of man at his best and worse. Throughout the whole book there has been the common thread that has held everything together. God sometimes acted openly but many times behind the scenes to bring about His purpose for His people. It is after all a book about His grace from the fall of man in the garden to the reconciliation of Joseph and his family.
God continues to work in the same way today in His body, the church. In Colossians we see that Jesus was the agent carrying out the work of His Father. It says, “He is before all things and in Him all things hold together.” (Colossians 1:17) Ephesians also emphasizes this unity in chapter 4:15-16.
Although the book ends with the death of Joseph it also carries with it a promise that God would never leave His people. We have that same assurance of His presence through any and every situation until He sees that His children arrive at home to be with Him.
Additional Notes:
BL- In chapter 50, Joseph is joined by all of Egypt in mourning his father’s death. Then, accompanied by Pharoah’s officials and all the adult members of his father’s household, Joseph takes Jacob’s body back to Canaan and buries him as he requested. Upon the family’s return to Egypt, however, the brothers begin to worry. What if Joseph seeks revenge for what his brothers did to him, now that their father is no longer able to intervene on their behalf? Worriedly, they send a messenger to Joseph, begging his forgiveness. Joseph weeps at their request, perhaps because they still do not seem to comprehend the love and the grace he has extended to them. Once again, he reassures them that he has truly forgiven them and that God has turned their evil plans to good.
C-Joseph and his brothers returned to Egypt after burying Jacob. Although the famine was long over, the family had adapted to living in Goshen in Egypt. There was no thought of the promise made that they would possess the land of Canaan. They had become comforted where they were and had no intention giving up a good thing. The only concern the brothers had expressed was, how Joseph was going to treat them now that Jacob was dead. This indicates that had never gotten over what they had done to Joseph. (Gen. 50:14-15)
TM-The brothers like so many of us held on to their guilt and were fearful that the one against whom they had sinned would see the current situation as an opportunity to seek retribution against them. They could not understand or accept that Joseph had forgiven them seventeen years earlier. (Gen. 50:15-21)
WM-After seventeen years in Egypt in constant contact with Joseph, his brothers still could not rid themselves of the guilt for what they had done to him. Now that Jacob was dead the fear returned that Joseph would now get even with them. They just could not believe that he would forgive them. They were just not the type to do so. They completely misread Joseph. He still believed that is was not them but God who had sent him to Egypt for such a time as all of the people were experiencing during the famine. He truly believed and understood that he was “in God’s place.” (Gen. 50:15-22)
M-Joseph was assured he was in God’s place for he had turned what was done for evil purposes and turned it into good. (Gen. 50:19-20)
C-Joseph still believed he was in the right place where God wanted him to be. (Gen. 50:19-20)
TM-Joseph understood that ultimately all things are in God’s hands and how he was to forgive those whom He had sent to protect and preserve. (Gen. 50:19-21)
RT-Many times we see how the events show how the weapons the devil tried to use were turned around and on him. Just what he intended to take place was thwarted by God’s plan for mankind. Joseph provides one those instances.
If Joseph had been killed as his brothers first planned to do, he would not have been in Egypt to save the lives of his family during the seven year long famine. Many years after being sold into Egypt and rising to the second most powerful position in that country he finally had the opportunity to tell his brothers that they meant their actions for evil but God had turned the evil into good. (Gen. 50:20)
C- He remembered the promise that Israel would return to the land they left. His last request was to have his bones carried back to Canaan for burial. (Gen. 50:24-26; Ex. 13:19; Josh. 24:32)
C-No longer could the brothers depend on Joseph but now had to rely on God to take of them. (Gen. 50:24)