Lesson 8
Putting a House in Order
2 Timothy 4:6-22
Many years ago I worked for an insurance company as an agent. Those who had been in the business for many years were passionate about the idea that everyone needs life insurance. My career in that organization did not last long because for one thing I did not have the personality to sell the product. I spent a year being miserable and not being successful. That whole experience taught me that I had not planned out my life very well. I took the job to escape from a job with not future. The timing was good because the business was closed shortly after I left, but the choice of careers was poor.
Preparing for the future is important for every family. None of us know what the days to come will bring. This came very clear when the handling of my mother’s affairs for the last three years of her life fell to me. I was so thankful that we had the forethought to have her give me a Power of Attorney. She had two other documents in place for us. One was her will and the other was a living will. It certainly made it easier to make decisions that she could no longer make for herself. To make sure that we do not face having to make last minute arrangements, my wife and I have given the needed authority to one of our sons.
The Church needs to have a process to make sure that its house is in order. It should begin with deciding on the direction that the congregation is to take. Most churches drift along never putting together a vision that will eliminate confusion of who it is. This will affect how it ministers in the culture where it is located. Based on the vision the body can then establish policies needed for the ongoing dealing with issues the church may face.
Probably the most important area that needs to be addressed is the process by which disciples are made and leadership is developed. Jim Putman, the Pastor of Real Life church located in Idaho, has written a book titled “Real Life Discipleship: Building Churches That Make Disciples.” In the book he provides concise ideas on developing disciples through the small groups. It is the means they use to raise up and develop the leadership that have become staff members. Paul was coming to the end of his letter to Timothy. It is a picture of a man who was ready for the future he believed was facing him.
2 Timothy 4:6
Paul had just told Timothy to fulfill the ministry that had been given to him. With all he had said, he now knew that the end of his life was very near. He faced it with a willingness to have his blood spilled out as a sacrifice. Finally he said, “The time of my departure has come.” The word used for departure was “analuis.” It had four possible meanings. They were:
- The unyoking of an animal from a cart.
- Loosening of bonds or fetters
- Loosening the ropes of a tent to move on to the next place of encampment.
- Loosening of the mooring ropes of a ship.
- How does this verse tie in with what he had just told Timothy? (Timothy needed to know that he was not going to have Paul around and would have to depend on the leadership and comfort of the Holy Spirit.)
- Why did Paul use the idea of a drink offering being poured out as a reference to his own death? (It sealed the offering to the gods by the Romans. Paul’s own blood was to be spilled out for God.)
- What sacrifice have you made in your service to Christ?
- How do you interpret the verse, “What profited a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul?” Luke 9:25 as it relates to Paul?
- How would you summarize the four possible meanings of analuis? (Each freed the object to be free from the retrains that held it.)
- What did mean for Paul? (He was to throw the bonds of this earth.)
2 Timothy 4:7
Looking back on his life Paul listed three accomplishments in his life as he faced death. He stated that he had:
- Fought the good fight. Paul had done his best in the arena of life. He had given his all and had not held back anything in reserve as he had faced many conflicts.
- Finished the course. In the racecourse of life he was in it from start to finish.
- Kept the faith. His trust and confidence in Jesus never waivered. As he said in other places that he had hope in that which was unseen.
- In what ways do you feel that you have handled the difficult conflicts that life has thrown at you?
- Where are you in the race of life? (For the young people the race may have only started but decision to stay in the race needs to be made.)
- In what ways do you believe you have kept the faith?
- How would you summarize the three characteristics Paul mentioned? (The Christian life is not a sprint but a marathon. One must be faithful to Christ for the long haul.)
- How did you maintain these characteristics in your life?
2 Timothy 4:8
Paul knew what lay ahead. The promise of the reward of a job well done was waiting for him. His work on earth was done and he was looking forward to receiving the crown of righteousness that was to be given to him by Jesus Himself. As an encouragement for Timothy and all those who would become followers of Christ who was to come after them, Paul said that the same reward was waiting for each person.
- What was the reward Paul was expecting?
- Why did he expect to be rewarded?
- Who else is going to receive a reward?
- How are you preparing to be part of that group?
- What is the greatest part of the fact that rewards will be given? (Christ will be the giver.)
2 Timothy 4:9-12
The last part of this chapter deals with personal matters that Paul wanted to share with Timothy. He first asked Timothy to come to Rome. Paul was a lonely man at this point and wanted companionship of those who meant much to him. Luke was the only one with him at that point. Demas had deserted him for what the world had to offer. Cresens, Titus, and Tychicus had been sent to other churches to minister. What may have seemed like a strange request, Timothy was commanded to bring Mark with him to Rome. The man who had deserted Paul and Barnabas on the first missionary trip had proven himself over the years and was now seen by him as fit for service.
- Why would Paul want Timothy to come to him? (To encourage him and to provide for some of his basic needs. With everyone gone Paul was probably lonely.)
- What did it mean that Demas loved the world?
- How does his attitude match the parable of the soils?
- How does Paul’s request for Mark give us encouragement? (It is not how a man begins but how he finishes that is important.)
- What was Paul doing by sending the men mentioned away from him? (The work must go on in the churches Paul had started?
2 Timothy 4:13
Paul then asked Timothy to bring some personal items to him:
- The cloak that would have acted as a blanket for warmth.
- The books which may have been early copies of the gospels
- The parchments which could have been either Paul’s legal documents or the Hebrew Scriptures
- If you were in a similar situation like Paul what are some of the things you would want that you consider valuable?
- What would you do if you were like Paul and did not have access to the Bible?
- What are some books that are important to you?
- What does that selection say about you?
2 Timothy 4:14-15
Almost nothing is known about the man, Alexander. One thing is sure he definitely was an enemy of Christ. There is only speculation that he may have been the same man mentioned in 1 Timothy 1:20 who had been part of the church but was involved in teaching false doctrine. Another author mentioned he might have been an informant at Paul’s first trial, who sought to cause him great harm. Whatever the case Timothy was being warned to watch out for the man because of his enmity to the cause of Christ. Paul spoke strongly that Alexander would face harsh judgment at the hands of God.
- Why do we need to be warned about men like Alexander?
- What is the great danger of such men to the church?
- Who are some of the people today that are the enemies of the church?
- How can you prepare to face such people?
- Why is it best to not become involved with them? (May be misled by their ideology.)
- Why did Paul not try to judge those men? (That is God’s job.)
2 Timothy 4:16-17
At the first trial before the Roman officials in Rome Paul had to face the situation by himself. There was not a single Christian who stood with him to testify in his behalf. He did not lay any blame on them. He understood that to be at the trial would put them in jeopardy of losing their life or being imprisoned.
Although all his friends deserted him he did not feel abandoned. He knew that the Lord was with him and from that assurance he received strength to face his accusers. He also believed that he would be freed from that trial to continue to preach the gospel to the Gentiles. Paul was released but was not in prison for the last time.
- Why did Paul’s friends and co-workers desert him? (For fear they might be killed or imprisoned.)
- Why did Paul not condemn their actions?
- Who did stand by him? (The Lord)
- What did Paul receive from the assurance that Christ was with him?
- What has been a situation when you felt deserted by someone you thought was a friend?
- What confidence will be yours if you know that Christ is with you?
2 Timothy 4:18
Knowing that Christ had been with him in the most difficult conditions, Paul believed that he could expect the same in the future after his death. Death for him was a rescue from the evils of this life. In his mind he was guaranteed a place in the kingdom of God. That kingdom was more wonderful than anything on this earth and would last forever.
- What gives us the assurance that Christ will never leave us or forsake us?
- Knowing that fact what is our guarantee for the future?
- How did Paul view heaven? (A place to behold all of God’s glory.)
- What does God’s glory mean to you?
- What assurance do you have that you will one day be with Christ and see people like Paul?
2 Timothy 4:19-21
Paul sent greetings to a number of people through Timothy. They were people who held a special place in his heart because of the relationship he had with them. They had been co-workers in the sharing of the gospel in difficult places and times. He also brought him up to date on the situation of others that were in different places of ministry. There were some people with Paul who wanted to send their greetings along with his.
Paul then called on Timothy to make every effort to come. As has been mentioned before, a very practical reason for him to come before winter was to bring the cloak that Paul needed.
- What was special about the people named in these verses?
- What do you enjoy about getting a newsletter from family and friends at Christmas?
- Why did Paul have a sense of urgency concerning Timothy’s trip to see him?
- What are we now missing, since we no longer write letters, as was done prior to the Creation of the internet?
- Who might be someone to whom you might need to send a note?
2 Timothy 4:22
The last words of Paul were an encouragement to Timothy? He desired that God’s Spirit rest upon him. Finally, he wrote, “Grace be with you.” Paul wanted nothing more than God’s gift that had provided him salvation to be present throughout his life.
- What was so important about God’s Spirit in the life of Timothy? (From Him he would receive strength and courage to face the days ahead.)
- What does it mean to have God’s grace? (It is the assurance of God’s favor on your life.)
- How would you feel if someone you admired and respected said those words to you?
- Why do we not use that type of ending in our correspondence?
- If you knew you were going to die, as Paul did, what would be some of the last words you would want to express to someone?
- No matter your age plan for the eventually of an untimely death or injury by providing your family with the tools to take care of your affairs.
- Do not leave words unspoken that your family would want to hear.
- Write a letter to someone that you love telling him or her how you feel.
- Like Paul, be assured that Christ walks each day with you and that you have eternal life.
- Follow Paul’s example of fighting the good fight, finishing the course and keeping the faith so that when you meet Jesus face to face He will congratulate you on being a faithful servant.
For almost two thousand years who have followed in the footsteps of Paul. They have been committed, sacrificing and serving leaders of the church. Paul could be at peace facing death because he knew that those he had trained were in place to carry on the work of the church upon his death. Looking at the example he set can solve one of the major problems facing the church today. We need to get serious about the raising up of new leaders. Both Timothy and Titus have given the characteristics of leaders but there has to be a desire to take on that role. Thankfully, in our day there are all kinds of training tools available for us to use. If technology has done anything it has put at our fingertips almost any subject we can hope to learn. We are certainly no busier than those of the first century. The difference is the priority they had for serving the Lord and not themselves. In order for the church to survive into the next generations we must work hard to make sure that leadership is in place to carry us there.